They say that the only things certain in life are death and taxes, and this might be true. Death is one of those things that everyone ultimately experiences. At some point in your life, you may experience the death of a loved one like a spouse, parent or friend. You may dream about someone dying before it happens, or you may just dream about someone dying because of your fears.
Everyone has dreams each night, and dreams about death are extremely common. While these dreams may occur because you fear that a loved one will pass away,they can also occur for a variety of other, more harmless reasons. Death dreams are rarely interpreted as being actually about death. Instead, they tend to show the other thoughts, feelings, fears and desires that are running through your mind.
What Does Mean When You Dream About Someone Dying?
When you have a dream about someone dying, you may wake up in a panic. These dreams can be intense, and it can take several moments before you realize that the dream did not actually happen. For minutes, your heart pounds as you fear that your loved one will pass away. While this is an extremely stressful experience, it is rarely a sign of anything that you should worry about. There are a number of possible reasons why you may dream about someone dying.
Death is the ultimate transformation. Through death, you go from your human form to the spirit world. Because of this, one of the most common reasons to dream about death is due to a transformation. Some great change may be approaching in your life. You may be up for a promotion at work or about to graduate from college. Perhaps you are about to take the next step in your relationship. Like the phoenix that dies in flames to be reborn anew, you are about to undergo a transformation. You will rise from the ashes of your past for a new change in your real life.
Pregnancy is one of the ultimate transformations in life. In many ways, it is the complete opposite to death. Through pregnancy, a new life comes into being. For some reason, many women tend to have dreams about death when they are pregnant or trying to get pregnant. In some cases, women have these dreams before they even realize that they actually are pregnant.
Even when you made the best choice possible, you may still feel guilty later. Sometimes, the best option is still not a good option. Even if you were not involved in the situation, you may regret that you could not help. Guilt can cause you to have a dream about someone dying. This may be from guilt for not helping them during life or guilt from not telling them how you really feel before they left the world. If you feel guilty, you may also dream that you finally tell them how you feel and reach closure.
4. Seeking Freedom
Many people have a domineering influence in their lives. This could be a parent, a lover or a friend. When they are around, you feel like you cannot truly be yourself. They squeeze out any vibrancy or optimism from your life and leave you feeling claustrophobic. Your subconscious may create a dream about them dying as a way for you to escape. This does not mean that you wish that they would die. It only means that your subconscious feels like they must be removed from your life for you to truly be free from their control.
One of the most normal reasons to have a dream about death is because of fear. When you love someone deeply, it is natural to be afraid of losing them. When you have dreams about death, it indicates that you love that person greatly and you are afraid of losing them. If you dream about your own death, it may indicate that you are afraid of something and want to escape life. It could also represent a fear of water, heights or whatever manner that you died. Your subconscious is just pulling from your fears to create these dreams, and the dream does not mean that the same fear will be revisited in real life.
Other than a more generalized fear, you may also have a fear of loss. Life is in constant flux. You can’t stop change from happening, but it is normal to be stressed out or afraid of it. You like your work, your family and your friends. You may fear losing them or having those relationships change, so you dream of dying.
One possible reason you dream about someone dying is a betrayal. If someone betrayed you in real life, you may dream that they die. This is a sign that you are upset and want to get revenge on them for their actions.
7. A Lack of Potential
If you feel like you are a failure or are not truly living up to your potential, you may dream that you or someone else dies in the dream.
8. A Psychological Change
A psychological disturbance could be the cause of your dreams. The human mind is not supposed to be in a state of constant stress. Unfortunately, modern life basically puts your mind constantly on alert. If you are psychologically disturbed through stress or something else, it can result in vivid, dark dreams. Your stress is basically transforming into dark dreams as an outlet for your subconscious mind.
9. Getting Closure
Many people lose a loved one at some point in their life. Unfortunately, you can never know for sure when someone will pass away, so you may not get to share a last “I love you” or apologize for something that you did wrong. When this happens, you will often have dreams about the loved one who has passed. You will get a chance to talk to them in the dream and get the closure that you were never able to achieve in real life.
10. You Have Finally Healed
If you dream about a loved one who died a long time ago, it may show that you are finally starting to heal. At first, the pain was too much for you to think about it or address it. As you start to heal, your subconscious is able to work through those feelings again. Because of this, you may start to have dreams about a loved one who died months or years afterward.
When you dream about someone who already died, it may also just mean that you miss them. This is especially common around anniversaries or holidays. If you are about to have a child or a major change in your life, you may dream about them because a part of you wishes that your loved one was there to see it.
In some cases, a dream about death could symbolize that you miss someone. You may dream about a dead parent or sibling because you miss being around them. You are afraid that they will move on in life without you, or you may fear that they will become completely disconnected from you. Because of this fear, you dream about them dying.
What Does It Mean When You Dream About Someone Dying?
When you dream about someone dying, it can mean a number of different things. Look at what happens in your dream and the situation that happens. How do you feel? Who is in the dream? What is going on in your current life? While a dream about someone dying can be terrifying, it is rarely a sign that someone will actually die. More often, it represents a different subconscious thought, fear or desire that is going on with you. To figure out what your dream means, you have to analyze everything that happens in it and see how it connects to your current life or feelings.