Last Updated on March 9, 2021 by Cassandra Nostredame

A Libra man in love isn't always easy to deal with. At one moment, he seems completely in love with you. In another five minutes, his affection seems to sway like a pendulum in the opposite direction.

Basically, he just wants to be sure the relationship is worth it and you are the perfect woman for him. It can take him years to figure it out before he ever decides to pop the question, so don't hold your breath. Instead, spend some time learning about what to expect when a Libra man is in love.

While it may take forever for him to make up his mind, he can sometimes decide right away that you are right for him if the circumstances are right. He needs to find a woman who perfectly compliments his good sides and counteracts negative qualities. A Libra is looking for a balanced relationship where you are interdependent.

In essence, a Libra man in love needs a woman who is capable of creating her own happiness when you guys are apart from each other, but who is also his missing half when you are together. His contradictions mean that he wants an interdependent relationship, but he also wants you to be independent as well. If you can navigate this careful balance, you might just be the right woman for him.

If you are interested in learning about how each zodiac sign behaves when in love, then feel free to check out our other articles on the topic. We have a wide range of articles ut how to have a healthy relationship with a Libra man that can help you out.

Overview of a Libra Man in Love

A Libra man in love tends to be extremely charming and is often at home in high-class social situations. He loves the beautiful things in life, and he looks for the same beauty or charm in his partner. A Libra man wants to find a classy, beautiful and intelligent woman who enjoys the finer things as he does. He hates to argue, so he needs a woman who is able to handle tough situations without blowing her top.

A Libra man loves to love, so he can fall in love quickly. He doesn't like playing games, but it can often feel like he is playing games with your mind. This is because it is hard for him to make up his mind, so he can blow hot and cold on the same day or even the same hour. Once he does decide that you are the right woman for him, he will be in it for the long haul. If you are uncertain about how he feels, you can always check out our article on how to tell if a Libra man likes you.

The Libra man in love likes peace, so he doesn't like a relationship that has arguments. He can't stand drama, although he often causes his own drama.

On the negative side, the Libra man can be entitled, overly chatty and slightly spoiled. While he may possess these qualities, he won't want to see them in you. He needs someone who is independent and never clingy. A Libra also wants someone who is his equal and treats him fairly.

Sometimes, a Libra needs some time alone in a quiet refuge to recharge. If he has a chance to recharge, he can return to his normal, charming personality. When he does need time alone, let him have it--otherwise, you'll regret it.

What Is a Libra Man Like in a Relationship

The Libra man is a complete sucker for love. He falls in love easily and seems to fall in love with just about everyone he meets. A Libra man in love's emotions are easy to read, and he tends to wear his heart on his sleeve.

While he may fall in love easily, this fact doesn't mean that he will stay in love as easily. His emotions swing like a pendulum, so he can be in love one minute and realize that you aren't the right person for him the next moment. Because of this, there is often a string of heartbroken ladies that the Libra leaves in his wake.

A Libra man in love is wonderful when it comes to dating. He loves the finer things in life, and he is more than happy to bring you along for the ride. You can expect amazing dinners, exotic locations and romantic adventures together.

He naturally seeks out beauty in all things and is known for being particularly sensuous with his dates. Once he decides that you are the right woman for him, he will be more than happy to commit to you. If you are “the one,” then he will stop at nothing to make sure that you are satisfied and happy at all times.

Other than his romantic, sensuous nature, the Libra man has a number of other good qualities. He is known for his charming attitude and intellectual rigor. He also generally has a peaceful, calm attitude toward life.

Because of his desire for calm, he won't like arguments or drama. Instead, he would rather keep you engaged in an intellectual conversation and avoid any intense situations. If an argument does happen, he will do his best to deal with it calmly and without uttering any nasty, hurtful words.

What Are the Downsides to Dating a Libra Man in Love?

While he can be a wonderful partner, there are some negatives to dating a Libra man. He enjoys the finer things in life, which means that he can seem extremely superficial. A pretty face or a beautiful exhibit may attract him, but he won't think about the darkness that can lurk beneath. He can quickly fall in love with a beautiful woman only to realize too late that she isn't compatible with him.

Because of this, a Libra man can often seem like a player. He is attracted to the superficial sides of the women he dates but rarely hangs around once he realizes that beauty was the only thing that attracted him.

Other than his tendency to be superficial, the Libra man in love can also be extremely frustrating. It is hard for him to make up his mind, so just planning out a dinner date can be a nightmare. He doesn't know if he wants Mexican food, French cuisine or a candlelight dinner. As most women who have dated a Libra are aware of, a Libra man can be infuriatingly indecisive.

What Type of Woman Does a Libra Man Need?

Since the Libra man in love likes the finer things in life, he wants a partner that suits his idea of beauty. If he struck up a conversation with you or asked you out, then he probably already finds you to be gorgeous and classy. Now, he just has to see if you are the right emotional and intellectual match for him. He needs a woman who is just as at home as he is in a high-class restaurant and surrounded by people.

Other than looking for his intellectual and social match, the Libra man in love also wants a woman who is grateful for the love he gives her. He doesn't want a woman who is prone to arguments, drama or flakiness. Instead, he wants to find a woman with who he can have a long-term relationship in peace.

In general, a Libra man in love would much rather talk over any problem in a calm voice over dinner than get in an argument. If you want to date a Libra man, then you have to learn how to handle problems calmly and keep up the intellectual conversations. If you are uncertain about how to do this, you can always check out this article on how to tell a Libra man how you feel.

What Is a Libra Man Like in the Bedroom?

If you are dating a Libra man, we have some good news for you: he is amazing in the bedroom. He loves beauty, the finer things in life and sensuous experiences. As such, a sexual escapade is his idea of a perfect weekend.

He wants to spend hours pleasing you and being pleased by you. This means that you can expect an intense night in bed where both of you leave completely satisfied.

In addition to having a sensual nature, the Libra man is also passionate and loves any sexy things. If you want to make him happy, buy sexy, silky lingerie for him to enjoy. A hot bubble bath together or rose petals to his bed are just a few of the things that could get him interested.

He loves the finer things, so focus on setting the mood if you want to impress him. You should light candles, use scented massage oil and go all out. He will appreciate every sensuous touch that you add to his bedroom experience. However, you should try to avoid anything too kinky unless you have talked it out together because he is really looking for a more sensuous, classy experience.

Romantic Compatibility With a Libra Man

At his heart, a Libra man in love is like any other zodiac sign. While there are some signs that are more compatible, it all depends on the individuals. If you are both self-aware and committed to the relationship, you can make things work out well, even if you aren't the most compatible signs for each other.

While any match is technically possible, there are a few that tend to work best with a Libra man. As you develop your relationship, you should take this opportunity to learn about the personality traits and characteristics of a Libra man. For the most compatible signs for a Libra man in love, read on.

Libra Man and Leo Woman: This is one of the most powerful matches for a Libra man. Leo and Libra feed off of each other's personalities and intellectual conversations. You can expect amazing adventures and a whirlwind romance. No matter what you guys decide to do together, you can expect a fun, enthralling experience.

Libra Man and Gemini Woman: This is one of the best matches for a Libra man. Together, you will have fun as you seek out adventures and the finger things in love. Your bond is based on your stimulating conversations and the ways that your personalities naturally compliment each other. Once you decide to commit, you can expect a positive, long-term relationship.

Libra Man and Sagittarius Woman: This is another great match that can become a long-term relationship. For it to work, you both have to learn how to handle each other's negative qualities. With the right balance, a Sagittarius woman and a Libra man in love can have a fun, charming relationship.

How Do You Know If a Libra Man Is in Love With You?

When you are truly dealing with a Libra man in love, you'll know it because you'll see a different side to his emotions. He'll be more committed and willing to solve any potential problems because he cares so much about you. Other than introducing you to his friends and family, he'll start planning a life with you.

What Is a Libra Man Attracted to?

A Libra man in love wants a woman who is put together and attractive. You have to be more than good-looking though. He wants a woman who is fair-minded as well as intelligent. Because a Libra wants a healthy relationship, he searches for a partner who is honest to a fault and willing to put in the effort to make a long-lasting partnership.

How Do You Know If a Libra Man Misses You?

Trust me--you'll know. Unlike some zodiac signs, the Libra man is incredibly, incredibly sociable. This means he's probably missing your company as soon as you walk out the door. If you've been a part for more than a couple of weeks, he's probably already sending you messages to tell you how much he misses you and cares about you.

How Do You Know If a Libra Man Is Serious?

If your Libra man in love is truly serious, he'll start being less guarded and more vulnerable when he's around you. He won't feel like he has to put on a show or be stronger or happier than he really is. Instead, he'll just relax. A Libra man in love will try to make your life better through thoughtful gifts and other signs of his affection.

If you want to return his show of affection, you can get tips and ideas in this article on love letters for a Libra. Plus, you can always check out gift ideas for a Libra man in love as well.