When a Libra woman is hurt, your chances of getting her to stay are surprisingly decent. She knows exactly how much work and effort she has put into the relationship, so she does not want to just throw everything away. A Libra woman will fix the problem when she can, although she will end things if nothing seems to be helping the situation.
What Happens When a Libra Woman Is Hurt?
At first, a Libra woman might act like nothing is really wrong. She will try to smooth things over and solve the problem. The last thing that she wants to do is throw out everything that you have worked for together. Represented by the scales, the Libra woman is all about balance. When a Libra woman is hurt, she has to re-balance the scales and get things back to normal.
If a Libra woman cannot fix the problem easily, she can become lopsided and sad. She may even stop caring about her favorite hobbies, people and things. In some cases, her sadness gives way to hopelessness and she stops caring about everything.
Interestingly, a Libra woman is also prone to becoming overly hopeful as well. It only takes a simple nudge for her to gain irrational hope in the relationship working out. If the relationship actually has some potential help, this can be a good thing. Self-help books, a trusted mentor or relationship counseling can give her the hope that she needs to keep going. If she is able to reach out in her sadness and get help, then her natural balance and equilibrium will eventually return.
Keep in mind that a Libra woman will not back down if she is threatened. She might like to go with the flow and smooth things over, but you can commit an unforgivable transgression. If this happens, you are in serious trouble. Don’t make her feel threatened or unsafe because you won’t be able to go back from that mistake.
How to Get a Libra Woman to Forgive You
Your first goal is to avoid arguing with your Libra woman. When a Libra woman is hurt, she seeks out harmony and peace. She wants a peaceful, balanced relationship, so she does not like getting into a fight.
The good news is that Libras dislike a break up because it causes stress and disharmony in their lives. If you can manage not to offend her again and apologize thoroughly, she is likely to take you back. Libras hate being alone in life, so they will try to restore balance to their relationships.
When a Libra woman is hurt, you need to start by showing how much you care. The Libra woman loves attention, so show you care about her through a wonderful date, a kind gift or some other gesture. Show her that you admire her and respect who she is. She needs to now how much you love her and care for her. Let her know just how much you miss her.
Whatever you do, don’t yell or act angrily. A Libra woman hates fights, so stay calm and talk through things honestly. Libra women are extremely sensitive and perceptive. If you lie to her, she will figure it out. Be gentle about how you phrase uncomfortable truths, but be honest. She is naturally compassionate and forgiving, so you have a good chance of being forgiven as long as you are honest with her.
Unlike some of the zodiac signs, a Libra woman has an excellent capacity for compromises. This zodiac sign is known for being an excellent listener. If you stay calm and are willing to talk, she will listen and try to understand your side of the situation. Let her know that you are willing to compromise and make the relationship work—she will most likely be open to the idea.
What Does a Libra Woman Hate in a Relationship?
The best way to have a good relationship with a Libra is to avoid hurting her in the first place. When a Libra woman is hurt, there are ways to solve the problem, but prevention is always better than a cure. This fair, intellectual woman has a few things that she wants in a partner as well as several turn-offs that she absolutely hates.
Unfairness: As you might expect, a Libra woman loves fairness and a balanced life. This harmonious creature does not want to be treated unfairly or unjustly.
Arguing: A Libra woman wants a harmonious life, so she hates arguing in any form. She would much rather have an intellectual, fair discussion of the problem. If you resort to yelling or rudeness in an argument, she will not hang around for long.
Deception: A Libra wants fairness and honesty in her relationships. Her intuitive nature means that she can easily tell when you are lying to her or misleading her in some way. While the truth might hurt, her empathetic nature means she can often understand where you are coming from.
Selfishness: Since the Libra is known as a fairly selfless sign, she needs this same quality in a partner. You have to take care of her because her selflessness can actually become destructive. She can become so focused on taking care of everyone else that she forgets to take care of herself, so you need to step in and care for your selfless Libra.
Boredom: A Libra woman likes to have fun. She loves to laugh and have a good time. While it is fine to spend time at home cuddling on the couch, she also wants to go out sometimes. When she is cuddling at home, a good book or documentary will stimulate her intellectual nature. To really keep your Libra happy, avoid boring her or stymieing her creativity.
A Libra woman gravitates away from conflict whenever she possibly can. When a Libra woman is hurt, she might even try to avoid the topic completely because she doesn’t like arguments or discord. Don’t be fooled though. If you hurt her badly, she definitely knows how to settle the score. If you have hurt a Libra woman, start by talking to her calmly about it. Be honest, show you appreciate her and promise to change. If you are lucky, she will choose to forgive you.