The mixture of an impulsive Aries woman and a sensible Taurus man may blossom into a lifelong partnership. A feminine Aries will bring excitement into the steady life of the male Taurus, and his imperturbable commitment will bring his partner to his side. Her partner will develop the secure scaffolding of the relationship, while she creates an ever rising structure. Relationships may fail because an impatient Aries may become unsatisfied with her humble partner, or a stubborn Taurus male may be uninterested in constant change and adventure. Luckily, the masculine energy of Aries is balanced by the feminine energy of the Aries woman and the feminine energy of Taurus is balanced by the masculine energy of the Taurus man. Understand the influences that lead to a successful relationship between an Aries woman and Taurus man.
Aries Woman and Taurus Man
With a Taurus Man
Taurus, governed by Venus, is a sensual creature that often puts material comfort before risky adventures. This energy is balanced by the natural male influences of the Taurus man, but few can deny the powers of the planets, especially one so proximal as Venus. Without a doubt, the moon and other planet alter the attributes of even the most serene and stubborn Taurus man.
The most common struggle in this relationship is balancing the spark of Aries with the soil of Taurus. Influenced by Mars, sudden eagerness is often stifled by the receptive, yet latent, nature of Venus. She should learn to gain patience as many of her sparks will sputter out under the suffocating soil of her partner. He should learn how to support her ideas and actions, and if he does, then the relationship will remain viable like shimmering coals of a well-fed fire. A successful partnership will see the Taurus as receptive coals and the Aries as dry fuel.
Understanding the needs of a Taurus is fairly simple. All he needs is a secure partner who is willing to spend a decent amount of time cuddling, massaging, or sitting quietly together. An Aries woman can influence her partner to be more active and spontaneous by rewarding his actions with alone time. Finding the balance between pleasantly relaxing and invigoratingly exciting will ensure the relationship will survive a lifetime.
With an Aries Woman
Unlike her partner, an Aries woman seeks excitement, newness, and action. The natural nature of her feminine side may balance out the overwhelming urges of Mars. This personal balance of an Aries woman creates an equilibrium with a Taurus man. The urge to conquer still causes her to act in a certain manner, but an unmovable Taurus is enough to keep her challenged and, therefore, interested. Truly, this partnership is an unstoppable force ramming into an immovable object.
For a Taurus man to successfully navigate this relationship, he must be willing to develop his willingness to explore and act in a unprompted manner. This may make him uncomfortable, but the relationship should take importance over his personal comfort. This is difficult for him, but he must learn to give into his partner’s wild side. Learning to trust an Aries woman and go with the flow is highly beneficial in this relationship.
He should not only want to follow her lead at times, but he should also allow her to be free. She is naturally interested in her liberties, and a Taurus male must learn to relinquish his possessiveness. This is a lesson in the saying, if you truly love something, set it free. Knowing that she has a reliable and trustworthy partner will influence her to come back. Controlling an Aries woman will only cause her to escape at the soonest possible opportunity.
This relationship is all about balancing the active and receptive forces of the two partners. The Aries seeks to begin new adventures and create new opportunities, while the Taurus must act as a foundation support for her actions. Competition in this relationship is like between a wildfire and fertile soil. The goals of one partner are often separate from the goals of the other, but they support each other in fundamental ways. The successes of Aries fertilize the abilities of Taurus, much like ashes from a forest nourishing the topsoil of the land. Likewise, abundant growth, fed by the nutrients of the earth, is exceptional fuel for a vigorous firestorm.
Without this healthy balance, mirrored by a respectful and understanding partnership between an Aries woman and a Taurus man, the relationship becomes suffocating or scorched. A dominant and uncaring Taurus can cause a relationship to become diseased and weak, much like an old forest where no new plants can grow. Similarly, a controlling and abusive Aries may cause the relationship to be barren and without love. For this reason, the relationship must follow the path set out by nature. The purpose of the Aries woman is to reveal new opportunities and broaden the mind her partner, and the Taurus must act as a stabilizing and renewing foundation for the precarious leaps of her ram-headed partner.
Changes will occur in both partners, and each person will come to see that the changes are beneficial to them both individually and as a couple. The Aries will become more stable and less risky, while the Taurus will be less lazy and more energetic. Short term relationships may occur, especially if either partner is unwilling to change. As the ram and the cow, or ewe and bull to be more accurate, are the most stubborn creatures of the stars, strains often occur due to a lack of partnership or excessive obstinacy.
Certainly, these relationships often have problems at the beginning. These problems are often due to love affairs, as both signs are highly sexual beings. Forgiveness, hard for both partners, is the key to this relationship. For those relationships that pass this most important of tests, they will likely last until death. Trust is incredibly important to both partners, and once trust is gained and fidelity is given, nothing can come between the two partners.
These signs are known for their sexual tendencies. Under Mars, the sexual partnership is a battlefield to be conquered. For Venus, these pleasures are as natural as breathing. The head, ruled by Aries, and the neck, ruled by Taurus, are prime targets of carnal desires. Aggressive Aries may find that her teeth, lips, and tongue will satisfy the primal cravings of the neck and collarbone of her Taurus partner. In turn, his unflinching and steady nature will ensure her cravings are satisfied.
Aries, whose aggressive nature places her on top of receptive Taurus, may find that her partner’s stubborn streak finds its way into the bedroom as well. A feminine Aries and masculine Taurus may find the roles reversed, with each partner changing roles throughout the experience. Positions may change and styles alternate, but neither can complain that their partner is unwilling, or unable, to satisfy the other. Taurus, ruled by Venus, may seek extended sexual encounters, and his Aries partner’s sparks of passion may cause numerous sexual episodes throughout the day. Blessed by Eros, the god of sexual attraction and child of Venus and Mars, this combination will lead to excessive and exuberant carnal encounters.
Before this relationship, it was likely that the Aries partner jumped from life to life or adventure to adventure and the Taurus sought to perfectly understand the few projects that he chose to take. If successful, this relationship will mix the best of both worlds. Instead of visiting ten new countries and experiencing none, the couple may find themselves fulling exploring two or three countries. It is also possible that traveling will lead to a major life change. These couples, driven by exploration and comfort, may emigrate to an exotic paradise.
Early in the relationships, dates may be filled with the exploration of nature, architecture or cultures. Other dates may be focused on each other, filled with the intent of learning everything about their partner. An Aries woman and Taurus man may find themselves deep in the mountains, cliff jumping, roasting vegetables, and making love under the stars. Success is often gauged by fresh experiences that last for days at a time. This gives the Aries a chance to explore a new idea and the Taurus an opportunity to fully understand an experience.
When the couple becomes tired of an experience, Aries will simply jump to the next thing that crosses her mind. Taurus may move slowly, but he will be prepared and willing when he arrives. She may want to jump to the next thing before he even arrives, and that is perfectly fine with stable Taurus. He would prefer to simply relax and enjoy life with his partner, so he will be content as long as she is happy. Later in the relationship, the Taurus may find something that interests him and his partner may take his role as a foundation to rely on. She needs time to herself as well, and Taurus will give it to her, while he explores his own interests. This relationship of Eros, born of Mars and Venus, will be protected by mutual attraction and intimate experiences.